Wisconsin Rhythms

When we arrived in Wisconsin back in June, we all had mixed feelings. We were excited to see all of our dear friends but anxious to see how our community would receive us back into the fold. Northeast Wisconsin, in particular, is a tough egg to crack. It’s a region with a definite rhythm. And, if you don’t beat to that drum then you don’t play in the band, so to speak. We’ve learned to walk humbly in this community, listen and learn the rhythm. All the while, gently encouraging different rhythms. I don’t know if it’s because we’ve been gone for a year and our perspective is different but this time around, we noticed much more reception to the “different” that we bring as a family and as The Hollands! We are so grateful for the open doors here in our home state. In the last two weeks we’ve performed about twenty times with double slots daily. As we get ready to head to Minnesota, we’re trying to soak in these last few moments. We are looking forward to one more pass through in September as we head to the West Coast for the winter.

Some of our highlights from our Wisconsin Tour:

The Fox River House, Appleton WI. This little gem is full of bright, creative and thoughtful folk.  We really felt like we were at a family reunion. We meet kinfolk from the moment we arrived until we departed. We were inspired by artist like Washington D.C’s, Chad Brady and a darling named, Elysa who did this pen and ink on a paper plate while we were performing. The Pizza was great and Jess, Laura and Patti took great care of us.  The spirit of hospitality is welcoming at the Fox River house and the twinkle lights in the beer garden make us feel right at home.

Gordon Lodge-Top Deck, Baileys Harbor, WI- The food is amazing, specially the desserts! Our favorite is the Creme Brulee. The staff offers a kind smile and helping hand and the owner/management treat us with respect. This is one of the most gracious and welcoming five star resorts we’ve ever performed at. They offer music Friday’s and Sunday’s in the summer. We arrived early and took advantage of the paddle boat and lounging in the shade.  Also, Gordon Lodge offers the best sunsets in Door County!

 A classy, sassy boutique in Fish Creek, WI. The Brilliant Stranger is owned by our friend, Dawn Patel. Dawn, is a creative visionary and when she invited us to come and play a set in her boutique we said, “Yes!” We enjoyed Luna Coffee and sang to folks who were happy to have a sit and listen, then shop joyfully as our music carried through the store. Grace and I were delighted, at our finish, to be able to pick out a special dress each. Craig was happy with his coffee and Banjo got a YoYo.

 Terry Naturally, Green Bay, WI- Wednesday nights, one of our favorites, the Terry Naturally Farmers Market is small but relaxed with a set up like a mini-festival or back yard party. Debra, the owner has her grill rolling, offering dinner for less than you would pay at a fast food joint and it’s all natural yumminess. There are a handful of venders, including a few farms from the area, Soap and beauty makers, Tea, a lemonade/popcorn stand run by a little guy about the age of 12. Also, Joyful Henna Designs is there with her rugs and pillows and calm comfort. And, there is always good music from 4-6:30. 🙂


Galena, IL

Although we prefer to park and stay with host families, on occasion we pull into an RV park and spend a few days on our own. These are photos from our two night, mini-vacation in Galena, IL.

If you’re ever passing through this part of the country we highly recommend a stop in Galena.

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Kara Counard’s “The Women Over 90” Project

Kara Counard is one of the most inspiring people you could ever meet. We met her in 2010 when she came to one of our concerts. She ended up coming to just about every show that summer. In fact, she had come so many times that when she didn’t make it, we really felt like something was missing. She gave us that sense of “home.”

After a while we started to connect on a social basis in normal everyday circumstances, sharing lunch and dinner and we were even invited to a hula hoop party she hosted, where we learned to make hula hoops! And later, Grace and I were asked to take part in her 101 women photography project and it was then that we were introduced to the miracle of her gift. Yes, she can take pictures, but it’s more than that. She has this unassuming way of seeing life and her gentle spirit flows through all of her photos. She was able to capture us in a deep and meaningful way and I became a believer.

When it came time for our 2011 recording, “Ashes to Beauty,” we put the word out to several of our favorite artists and they all offered beautiful work, but when we saw what Kara whipped up we knew that we wanted her to be apart of the process. So, she not only did our CD artwork but she also took our photo’s and designed our limited edition t-shirts. It was an organic and pleasing process working with her.

Over the course of the last year we have kept in close contact as she has become our main link to our home, which never sold. She has lived in the upper and cared for the last of our past life with tenderness and respect. While we were in Australia I noticed an invite via Facebook regarding a new project Kara was working on. This one really caught my attention because it involved women over 90. That tapped right into my love and affection for the elderly and I was looking forward to seeing what Kara’s eye would capture.

I asked Kara a few questions about the project and these are some of her answers.

What is the heart and soul of this project?

I knew I wanted it to include were some kind of community involvement, some kind of focus on the stories of women, and a bridge or connection between groups of people who might not otherwise have met. So, the 5th grade girls at Chappell joined me as artists for this project. I went into their classroom to talk about photography, storytelling, light, composition, art, and interviewing. Meanwhile, I started photographing and interviewing women over 90.. and then far later in the project, the 5th graders actually took a field trip to Grancare.. where they split into small groups and interviewed and photographed 3 women for the project. Their photos and stories are alongside mine at the ARTgargage. I ended with 33 subjects from 89-100 years old.

How did working on this project impact you?

“I remember so many times when I was feeling uninspired or overwhelmed with all there was on my plate, I would go to a scheduled interview and leave with the biggest smile and lightness of heart. And I would drive by the places some of the women had talked about, where they grew up or had lived, and I would remember their stories. It all connected with my life in serendipitous ways. And I learned more about the foundation of this community that we live in. I share the stories of these women with so many people. I use them as examples in everyday life. And in that way they reach out and their beauty and lives spread. And, I learned so much from the 5th graders too! They are much braver than me with their cameras.. taking photos of ears and eyes and noses! “

My favorite capture was “Emerald,” who I happened to meet at the opening. What an honor to meet her. She was a sprite cat with a pleasant smile and lightness in her step. Add in the fact that she played the accordain and a great story teller. This is her story as told by Kara.

Emerald Conley- 92

“If my kids would allow me, I would go to the conventions, and I’d still be learning!” said the Bohemian Irish accordion player, who doesn’t play polkas!

Emerald Conley has always enjoyed a challenge. Her father owned Van’s Greenhouse. And when she was 3 1/2 years old, he showed her how to take a cutting and grow it. It initiated her love of a challenge which grew with her love and passion for music.

She began playing the accordion accidentally. Emerald first started playing the piano. For two years, she had lessons where she learned to read music well, and where correct fingering was stressed.. which came in handy! She had to quit lessons, because her parents couldn’t afford them during the depression. But in 1937, they offered accordion lessons to her sister, who starting on a 12 bass accordion, showed Emerald how to “pull two measures and push two measures.” Emerald caught on quickly, and she learned all the same lessons as her sister without any instruction. When her parents bought a 120 bass accordion for her sister, Emerald asked if she might take lessons too? She had to show the instructor that she could do all the lessons her sister could, and her sister quit the accordion shortly after, picking up another instrument.

Emerald grew up right next to Fort Howard Cemetery, and she would practice the accordion ‘til 10 or 11 at night, because there was no one to complain about her playing! 😉 When her teacher got his draft papers, he came by to tell her she would be taking over all his students. When she objected, he told her he had already told them she would.

After she was married, she traveled, following her husband who was in service in WWII. Her accordion went everywhere she did. Emerald spent years teaching and always perfecting her craft. She took lessons from the best of them.. and she can tell you all about making apple pie for the world’s greatest accordion player, Charles Magnante! She even got to play for him!

Emerald still practices daily, and she still gives lessons when time permits, saying, “I can’t take my knowledge with me!’

I didn’t get to make pie for Emerald but I did have the unique opportunity to “jam” with Emerald at a picnic that friend organized for us. The highlight of my day was strumming along on my guitar to one of Emerald’s Italian love songs while the living legend and stand up bass player, Ike Smith called out my cords. I’m sure I’ll be telling that story when I’m 90.


You can see more of Kara’s work at BLOOM PHOTOGRAPHY BY KARA.